How Does The Counterfeit "False" Twin Help You Get To Union With Your Twin?
Repost from 2014
WHAT'S A "FALSE aka COUNTERFEIT TWIN FLAME" AND HOW DO FALSE TWIN FLAMES HELP US REACH REUNION WITH OUR TRUE TWIN FLAME?
Or are they even a thing?
There's a lot of speculation on this subject; people who say they've experienced a false or counterfeit twin flame swear it's a thing. Those who haven't experienced it say it's mere speculation, or just a really, really intense connection with another person that people put way too much emphasis on.
The Counterfeit, or False Twin is said to play a very important role in the reunion of, and in the connection between Twin Flames. It's said that all twin flames have a counterfeit aka false twin, whether or not they know it. While all soul mate connections prepare us for "the one," some more than others, some there is only one false twin. Others say there can be multiple "false twins." (If that were the case, I suppose every ex I've ever had would be a false twin?)
Everyone seems to agree though, that everyone we meet on any level is considered a soul mate. Whether we pass them once on the street or have a long romantic relationship with them, we are all one another's soul mates. Everything and everyone is interconnected. Okay...
It's also said that as we enter Ascension and are activated and awaken spiritually, we begin to be able to connect with others on an extraordinarily deep level, like nothing we have ever experienced before. Cool...
Oftentimes, activation begins slowly and we find we are deeply connected to many, but a soul mate or twin flame often comes easily as far as connection. Cool...
This is often accompanied by the symptoms of awakening. Suddenly we find ourselves experiencing unconditional love and a never-before-seen intensity in our chakra connection with another soul on a level so deep that it creates an intensity like no other, that is simply indescribable in words. Wow, cool...
It's said that some find that they feel as though they complete each other and some even say that a sense of intuitive connection almost like a kind of telepathy exists. Neat-o...
It's also said that there's even aspects of the traditional twin flame template; push-pull, signs and symptoms and syncs galore. This is why the term False Twin rings so correct in the minds for so many people. The connection has all the makings of a twin flame reunion and even looks like a twin flame connection in the journey aspect - except it's another type of connection.
"But in my heart I can feel it!" Of course you can. Otherwise, it would be called something else other than False Twin. It would be called the "really passionate soulmate-like-me connection" instead of the false or counterfeit twin.
It's further stated that we may have already met and noted our counterfeit twin, or we may not have met them yet. And, that we may connect with them before our reunion or after we've already met our twin. Cool...
Additionally, people say that the false twin prepares us in amazing ways for the true twin...
Sometimes, the false twin serves as the catalyst to end longstanding situations to make room for the true twin to enter. Sometimes the false twin aids in activating the process of ascension and awakening. I've even heard the false twin can jumpstart internal healing processes to pave the way for the twin flame journey. As unique and painful (and pleasurable) as the false twin may be, it's said to be a very important connection. Again, cool...
They say that like real twins, the counterfeit twin is not perfect, nor is it a perfect relationship. To imply perfection would be inhuman. All people are human. Both twin flames and false twins are both perfect and imperfect in their own respect.
TAKEAWAYS:
Some people believe in false twins, others do not. If you believe in false twin flames, the false twin can also be called the "counterfeit twin" and we're said to connect with them at different junctures in our lives. Some are said to meet prior to embarking on the twin flame journey with their real twins while others meet a false twin during their twin flame journey or even after they're together in a relationship.
IMPORTANT ROLES THE FALSE TWIN IS SAID TO PLAY:
1. Activation of internal healing processes, inner growth and discovering the higher self.
2. Activation of one's ascension process (personal learning/growth)
3. Release of old attachments. (Finally able to drop old relationships.)
4. Learning about one's self and connection in general.
The false twin can be so intense that it causes those who have never even heard of twin flame as a concept to embark on researching the subject.
There is also a lot of speculation about the relationships false twin connections might have. They say it can be as brief as a few days, or can take years to process through, depending on the person and the twin flame couple in question. I've also read people say that much healing, learning, processing, purging and development happen when one meets their false twin flame. Each person is unique and thus, each false twin couple is also equally unique. I've also heard many say they didn't realize who their false twin was, until they'd gone through the relationship itself and looked back in hindsight.
Have you met your false twin? What did you contribute and receive from the relationship? What was it like?
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OMG! I had to comment to this article. I met my “the person I thought was my twin” a year ago. I was unfulfilled in my marriage and when I met him online, he was around my age and going through the same issue in his relationship. We bonded right away. In matter for few months, we had somehow managed to help each other open our eyes and confront many things about our lives. With in 4 to 5 months, we both confronted our relationships and decided to leave it because it wasn’t authentic. He held on to me but only as time passed, I realized his love life was lot more complicated because he was already in an emotional affair with another friend of his. I insisted he figure of his loose ends. He forced me to confront my reality, which ended my marriage. He pushed my boundaries where I could find unconditional love in my heart, even for the other women in his life who wanted him. In just ONE year, our lives changed upside down. We went through many psychic visions together, like having child together, shared dreams, synchronicity, and felt like we were somehow meant for each other. But, the relationship was not harmonious. We had many confrontations. And many times I felt like his actions were very narcissistic. I would bring it up to him and he tried hard to work on those sides of him.
After my husband and I decided to separate, we put our house on market which didn’t sell for 5 months. That delayed my movement a little. He complained a lot about we are not together yet. But I felt like there was no hurry. Even though we lived in different cities, we have met each other a handful of time so far. Eventually in January, I moved out and by weird sync he got a new job in a new city and he also moved around the same time. We experienced that process together but I felt his “supportive” side kept getting weaker and weaker.
He loves his new job/role where he is admired and he is enjoying it. I went to meet him last week and we had a good time. I helped set up his new place. But we broke up OUT OF NOWHERE 5 days ago. This was triggered by the fact that he didn’t know how to be a father to my 4 year old daughter. He said he can’t be until her real dad was consistently present her life. THIS SHOCKED ME. This side of him that was selfish, that didn’t think of the highest good of a child. Nothing was keeping him in the new city, still he changed his mind in no time and decided he can’t start a family with me that being the case. I understand his deep, traumatic wound from his childhood and his past relationship related to FATHERHOOD that he is too afraid to confront. While I can offer compassion, I am deeply hurt. How quickly he came into my life and how quickly he left.
I was hurting for past 5 days or so. I sat down for a meditation just now and I started crying. It felt like he stole something from me without my permission. That he manipulated his way like he was my divine counterpart to get what he wanted. And how he left.
I am very appreciative of him and his presence in my life. In a way, I will always love him and hold compassion in my heart for him even if things hurt me in the end. He was truly a CATALYST for all the major, life changing shifts that has happened in my life in a very short time. I can’t believe in JUST a year, I am in an apartment, living with my daughter. I can’t wrap my head around this journey. I know this ending was recent and very raw, but there was a part of me that was hesitant to take the leap of faith with him when he kept pushing me. And that part of me always wondered if he was really my twin. If he is my twin, can he really be that closed off to a child’s life. That doesn’t align with my own values or how I love to nurture others. In fact, I feel my mission is deeply associated in nurturing others. And to this side of him that was incapable of it (sadly, not what I thought he was) concludes that we probably don’t have a mission together.
It has been an intense journey and even intense this sadness. I am ok being on my own now. But there was some anger that it felt like he stole something from me. Now my recovery will be in find full compassion for him. If this doesn’t scream “FALSE TWIN”, I don’t know what does. I don’t know if there is a real twin for me. I haven’t met anyone yet. But it doesn’t matter. My mission is still in me and I will live everyday by it.
Quite honestly, as TERRIBLE as the fall felt when I found out he wasn’t my twin, and as grating as it was in the last year of it, I was greatful even before reading this article for what he did for me. Now I really am Greatful for a truly helpful article. I thank you for writing it!
My Falsie was purely telepathic, and a rather farfetched union. Because of the nature of the union though, I had quite the fun time picking up on hints he’d leave in Youtube videos for me to catch, referencing things we had spoken of the prior day to the upload. At first I was weary, but he was answering far too specifically, and the universe knows how nerdy I go for good Puzzles, so it was the perfect little adventure for me.
We fell hard, and climbed to heights of fulfillment and happiness i had forgetton existed, we both got out of bad relationships at the exact same time, we both helped each other out of those funks, got each other healthier again, started going out into nature more, and even had the same weird Swan Experience on the same day even though we were worlds apart.
At first our differences felt like they didn’t matter, that we would both find fun ways around them, but then the third year of our connection we started grating on each other. He became lazy, not as understanding as he used to, and I was too tired to deal with his whining. I still held hope.
When my true Twin Flame appeared I was still with the Falsie, but the universe knew I was in no place to take the news, so it presented it to me as a new experience. Two twin flames, a three way relationship where everyone loved each other. It sounded… well I tried to make it sound great, it helped put a bandage on it until I was of sound enough mind to hear the truth.
In fact, it was only a week ago I finally let go of my false flame, and now I’m happily learning about the new Man that is about to enter my life for eternity. And yes, I can surely say that the false twin flame helped open me up. There are still parts of me that are scared that it will end the same way and that I was wrong and this doesn’t exist, but that fear quickly gets swept up by telepathic ghost kisses. <3 And they are of such a high frequency I could never doubt it.
I’ve been recovering from what I thought was a “twin flame” relationship. Before meeting him, I had the word “twin flame” pop into my head, and when I met this person a couple weeks later, I fell madly in love. He said he did too. We had the most incredible synchronicities, so much parallel in our lives, telepathy. I had never experienced anything like it. He then pushed me away, which then sent me on a search and looking up “twin flames.” When I started searching, it all seemed to add up. The only difference was, he seemed to enjoy hurting me in a way that didn’t seem quite like the “runner” “chaser” phase, and he seemed to copy me, like mirroring. It felt a little bit like he was stealing from me. I realized he may have had a narcissistic personality disorder, which made me feel like I had been duped, but that didn’t stop my psychic connection to this person and the sychronicities even while apart, so I was still convinced he could be my twin. I went on an insane journey trying to get better and cut the ties, including seeing several healers. They all told me it was a karmic connection, which didn’t seem to add up to “twin flame,” but then every once and awhile I would have something insane happen, like a homeless person walk up to me and start telling me about their twin flame, or asking a psychic if he was my twin flame and her rolling her eyes, grabbing a deck of cards, shuffling it, and pulling the twin flame card, which weirdly had a drawing on it that looked exactly like him.
I had seen the term “false twin” but didn’t really quite believe that was what happened until today. I had another energy healing, where the woman said that the reason this has been so hard on me was “He wasn’t what you thought he was, he misrepresented himself, he was a lie.” She told me that I wanted to heal him because he is so much like me, but that it’s karma we play out, and this is the lifetime where I learn to walk away and heal myself instead. And then later that day the term “false twin” popped into my brain and it all finally seemed to click into place definitively.
I have had tremendous pain but insane growth because of this short lived fling, including strange talents that have emerged. We ignited each other for sure. But at the end of the day, I can’t imagine my real twin flame doing strange sadistic things to me and feeling robbed of my identity. I know deep down all I wanted to do was share with him, but he just wanted to take.
I so much wish to share how I was guided and helped by angels and ascended masters to realize I was in a false TF relationship. Like all, I was a part of this false twin flame relationship (it had all those aspects of a twin flame but, I still felt that something was not ok deep inside). After ignoring all the signs by the angels and AM (ascended masters), I reached a stage that I am in a real twin flame relationship due to various signs and syncs that I asked my angel and it responded as yes. At the same time, I was doing energy clearing and TF connection meditation (which probably helped me to read through the signs better than before). I however, kept seeing three sets of numbers constantly 818, 819 and 414. I could however, decode the meaning of 818 and 414 (on internet but they were all general meaning) but never found a satisfying meaning for 819.
I asked angel several times as to why am I encountering this number 819. I once got a dream about this number 818 and it meant it is “ME” and 819 signifies my “false TF” and the word “dominating” accompanied with this number 819. I still could not understand what it means and I went crazy what does it mean that 819 is my TF and he is dominating. I decided not to give up and kept requesting the angel to give me clearer message.
I tried to link me and my False Twin through our life path number, his was 4 and mine was 8 (it was never a match). Keeping the same in my mind and due to several other synchronicities and bits and pieces of information, there was flash in my mind which gave me a complete meaning of what angel and AM were trying to make me understand and this is what I figured out:
My life path number is 8 and his is 4. I kept seeing 818 and 414, which signifies mirrored numbers. 818 is mine and my real twin flame’s reunion and 414 was his and his real twin flame’s reunion would look like (if in case it happens to him). When I added 818 it gives 8 and when I add 414 it gives 9. So, when I get 8 and 9 together along with reunion number 1, it looks like 819, voila!!! He is still my twin flame but a false twin flame!! I am meant to be 818 and he is meant to be 414 but, we were 819 and those are the numbers I kept seeing from almost 3 months…
I know all this looks crazy and you might think it is way too complicated to decode the signs. But, trust me when you are persistent about knowing something, universe will knock it down and bring the meaning in front of you. All I did is ask for repeated help to make me understand the meaning, it was the angels and AM who took all the effort to keep all the above information in front of me.
It’s true that the False TF relationship is sooooo close to a real TF relationship but, trust me, I have really climbed up the ladder of ascension because of this False TF I met. I thank him and genuinely understand his challenge. I wish him luck, happiness and blessings!!
I also genuinely thank the angels, ascended masters and the universe who put in so much of effort to make me understand that I was with my false twin. I am looking forward for my Real Twin flame now ;) Wish me luck!! :D
Hi Helena,
Been reading your articles.
Are you saying that all these difficult release, challenges and growth are onlt experienced with a false twin?
Meaning when we meet our real twin, we would have already been ‘pristined’?