Religion & Spirituality: Why Are People So Critical?

It is not difficult to notice that everyone in this great world has their own views regarding religion and even about spirituality, in general. As we all grow, evolve and change with age so do our views as a normal aspect of our personal process of growth and development as people. 

I've always believed in God. I still do, and I cannot imagine that will ever change. My personal view is that God is Source, The Creator, and that one's belief in and connection with God is a private and very personal matter.

Understanding that God has different names and terminology depending on where in the world one may live, the language that one may speak, one's religion and/or what beliefs one is exposed to, etc., it's usually pretty clear that people tend to have their own ways of phrasing statements about their beliefs. But regardless, it's still clear that they're referring to God if having a conversation regarding the subject of spirituality.

Admittedly a somewhat opinionated person, I do not criticize other people's religions or beliefs. I like to keep an open mind. I don't criticize others because I feel like it isn't my place. In my opinion, doing so would be cruel. Yet, I see people constantly criticizing the religions or beliefs of others.

We see this type of cruel criticism with antisemitism, and we see it when we look through the news and see some reporter belittling Muslims. We see people who sadly make it their literal day's enjoyment to harass Presbyterians, Catholics, Mormons, Scientologists, Baptists, Methodists, Jehovah's Witnesses, Episcopalians, etc., I could go on forever. But why?

Let's consider the reasons why.

People all over the world have differences in beliefs. People tend to be critical of religions that differ from their own beliefs. They may feel that their own religion is the only true one and that all others are wrong or misguided. People often hold their religious beliefs very closely and view them as fundamental to their identity and world-view. When encountering someone who believes differently, it can be challenging for some to accept that other beliefs are equally valid. This can lead to criticism and even hostility towards people who hold different religious beliefs. In some cases, people may also view those who believe differently as a threat to their own religious community or way of life. This can fuel a sense of exclusivity and a belief that only their religion is the true one, leading to further criticism and even discrimination against those who do not share their beliefs.

Some may have cultural biases. People often grow up with a particular set of cultural beliefs and values, which can lead them to be critical of other religions that do not align with their own. Cultural bias can play a significant role in shaping how people view and criticize other religions. When people grow up within a particular culture, they are often taught certain values and beliefs from an early age. This can lead to a sense of cultural superiority and a belief that their own religion is the only true one. In some cases, this bias can manifest as a fear or mistrust of people who practice other religions, especially those from different cultures. Additionally, cultural biases can lead to a lack of exposure to other religions and a lack of understanding about their beliefs and practices. This can further fuel criticism and reinforce stereotypes, making it more difficult for people to appreciate the diversity of religious beliefs and practices that exist around the world.

They may be coming from a place of lack of understanding. Sometimes people are critical of religions because they do not fully understand the beliefs and practices of that religion. This can lead to misconceptions and stereotypes about the religion, which can then fuel criticism. When people lack a thorough understanding of a particular religion, they may be more likely to criticize it based on misconceptions or stereotypes. This can be due to a lack of exposure to other religions or a lack of interest in learning about them. In some cases, people may only hear negative things about a religion from the media or from other individuals, without taking the time to investigate for themselves. This can lead to a narrow-minded view of the religion and its followers, making it easier to criticize and dismiss. It is important for individuals to approach other religions with an open mind, seek out reliable sources of information, and avoid relying on hearsay or rumors when forming opinions about a religion.

Fear and insecurity may also play a role. Some people may feel threatened by other religions, especially if they perceive them as growing in popularity or influence. This can lead to criticism as a way to assert their own beliefs and defend against perceived threats. Fear and insecurity can also play a role in fueling criticism of other religions. Some people may feel threatened by other religions, especially if they perceive them as growing in popularity or influence. This can lead to a sense of defensiveness and a belief that their own religion is being overshadowed or marginalized. In some cases, people may also view other religions as a threat to their own way of life, especially if they perceive those religions as having values or beliefs that conflict with their own. This fear and insecurity can manifest as criticism, hostility, or even discrimination against those who practice other religions, in an attempt to defend their own beliefs and way of life.

Overall, it is important to approach religious differences with respect and an open mind. By seeking to understand and appreciate the beliefs and practices of others, we can build bridges and promote understanding and tolerance. I am referring to mindfulness. It is important to be kind, empathetic and mindful of the feelings of others when discussing the subject of religion, or spirituality.

Criticism of someone's religion can be harmful and hurtful. It can create divisions and promote intolerance, leading to conflict and even violence. People's religious beliefs are often deeply personal and important to their sense of identity and connection to their community. Criticizing someone's religion can be perceived as a personal attack and can lead to feelings of shame, guilt, and rejection. It can also reinforce negative stereotypes and contribute to discrimination against individuals or groups based on their religion. Instead of criticizing other religions, it is important to approach them with respect and an open mind, seeking to learn about and understand the beliefs and practices of others. By doing so, we can promote greater understanding, empathy, and tolerance, and build bridges across religious divides.

How to have a mindful discussion regarding spirituality:

1. Approach the conversation with an open mind: It is important to approach discussions about religion with an open mind and a willingness to learn. Acknowledge that everyone has their own beliefs and values, and be respectful of those differences.

2. Listen actively: When discussing religion, it is important to listen actively to what the other person is saying. Allow them to express their beliefs and share their experiences without interruption. Avoid making assumptions or jumping to conclusions based on preconceived notions or stereotypes. If you truly wish to understand and keep an open mind, go learn for yourself.

3. Use language that is respectful and inclusive: Be mindful of the language you use when discussing religion. Avoid derogatory or disrespectful language that could be offensive to others. Use language that is inclusive and acknowledges the diversity of religious beliefs and practices that exist. It's also important to be aware of any cultural or religious taboos, and avoid language or behaviors that could be deemed disrespectful or offensive.

It's my take that one's personal beliefs are important to hold dear to one's heart, but it is also important to be respectful of other people's views as well.